搜索

第82期:隐私如国境

  发表于 Apr 23, 2018 13:16:37 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
第82期:隐私如国境
There are quite a few questions that are supposed never to be asked about. It is impolite or rude even to mention them in a conversation. These topics include one's age, income, marriage, religious belief and political position as well as any other fields of privacy.In order to understand the American or western idea of a personal concept of privacy, one may think of theconcept of “territory”. As well known, a nation has borders or boundaries with other countries and everything within the border belongs to the nation alone and no one else.One's home - one's castleIs one able to enter another country without a passport - a permit from another? Absolutely not. It is thesame for one's home.If one enters someone else's home without asking for permission, he is likely to be charged with trespassing or even burglary. Inside the house everything is within the territory of the owner, no one else. A bedroom is his or her castle. No one may visit it without permission.Inside the room - confidentialNo one has the right to open a closet, desk or drawer in the room - these are something secret in the hostor hostess' castle. On top of the desk there may be letters, business papers or exercise books, these tooare within the owner's territory. Never touch them or read them! Similarly never read over one's shoulder when he or she is reading something!You don't want to behave like a spy, do you? Anything one is reading is his or her private property. Don't invade it!Income - a top secretIn the United States, one's income is the top secret. Never even try to ask any questions about it! Avoidasking for dishonor. In the same way, it is impolite to inquire about one's property or the cost of some articles. You may say how cool something is, but never ask about the price.Age - taboo for everyoneAge is considered a taboo, especially for the ladies. They hate any topics about age, simply because they hate to get old, because they want to stay young forever! They are very sensitive to questions like: “When were you born?” or “Do you have artificial teeth?”Never make any comment like “You have grey hair”, otherwise the males and females alike will beat you black and blue.Religion - sensitiveReligion is what one believes in personally. It is totally a personal matter. Never ask,“Why do you worship as a Christian”, it is none of your business. Everyone has the freedom to believe as they choose in belief.Politics - big men's affairsPolitics is a sensitive topic too. It's completely of personal opinion. There is no argument about taste,anyway. Besides, such questions as “Do you believe Israel will accept the conditions for peace talks?” should be on the agenda of those “big men”, not for a “nobody” like you and me.

您需要登录后才可以回帖 登录 | 注册

本版积分规则

秀哈英语

Copyright © 2024 秀哈英语版权所有

https://www.showha.cn/ ( 皖ICP备2022008997号 )

关于我们
关于我们
秀哈文化
使用指南
招聘信息
小黑屋
政策说明
法律声明
隐私保护
信息发布规则
关注秀哈微信公众号
手机访问秀哈英语,更方便!
快速回复 返回列表 返回顶部